In addition, Obama makes no secret of his desire to reach an  understanding and eventually sign a deal with the Iranians on their nuclear  program.  As a result, and so as not to be seen undermining American  diplomatic efforts, Israel's hands are effectively tied for the foreseeable  future unless there is a breakdown in the talks and the Iranians leave the  table.  Setting aside the occasional outlandish remark by an Israeli  politician - like Deputy Foreign Minister Danny Ayalon's comment last week that  the threat of an attack is not a bluff - Israel is officially quiet when it  comes to Iran. Mainly, it does not want to be perceived as interfering with  American diplomatic efforts, but also because its policy is that Iran is a  global threat that should be dealt with by the world. 
  
 In statements made public during his four-day visit to the US  this week, Defense Minister Ehud Barak did not even mention Iran but spoke more  about diplomacy and the Palestinians before and after his meetings with Defense  Secretary Robert Gates and National Security Adviser James Jones. 
  
 Chief of General Staff Lt.-Gen. Gabi Ashkenazi has also toned  down the rhetoric on Iran. While recognizing that as the commander of the  military he is obligated to prepare a variety of options, he told the Knesset  Foreign Affairs and Defense Committee this week that the Iranian regime was  rational and international pressure could have the desired effect. 
  
 Israel had also hoped to get more out of the seizure of the  Iranian arms ship last week that was carrying more than 300 tons of weaponry  from Iran to Hizbullah in Lebanon. The hope was that the Francop's  capture would be like the seizure of the Karine A in 2002, which paved  the way for Operation Defensive Shield later that year, and which legitimized  claims that Yasser Arafat was dealing in terror. 
  
 But as the last week has shown, the world is not that  interested in the Francop.  While the US accused Iran of violating a UN-imposed arms  embargo by secretly sending weapons, Britain took a softer line at the Security  Council, expressing "very serious concern," but ultimately saying it was waiting  for more information about the ship's origin, destination, cargo and seizure.   Israel tried to provide this information on Wednesday when it  released photographs and documents which it claimed proved that Iran was behind  the smuggled arms. One example were the words, "Ministry of Sepah," which were  written on boxes filled with Kalashnikov bullets, and which Israel explained  reffered to the Iranian armed forces. 
  
 But for the most part, the  evidence fell on deaf ears. 
  
 Perhaps Israel was responsible for the public relations  failure; after all, it took the Foreign Ministry over a week to issue a press  release explaining the origin of the weaponry, when many papers - including the  Jerusalem Post - had arrived at the same conclusion on the day the boat  was seized. Or maybe the delay was a subtle way for Israel to once again  demonstrate to the world that it was not solely responsible to counter the  Iranian threat. And maybe the international response was a subtle way of saying  to Israel, "Relax. We're on your side."      'US, Israel, share  ties, not a romance'
    Nov. 13,  2009
JPost.com Staff , THE JERUSALEM POST 
 
   US President Barack Obama has a meeting  with Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu in the Oval Office private dining room,  Nov. 9, 2009.
  The White House on Friday released a single photograph from a  hushed meeting held Monday night between US President Barack Obama and Prime  Minister Binyamin Netanyahu. 
   
    The meeting was closed to the media and apart from a brief and  laconic White House press statement, neither of the sides made any comments to  reporters following the discussion. 
  
 Netanyahu met with Obama tête-à-tête for approximately an  hour, after which the two leaders were joined by their aides for an additional  40 minutes. 
  
 A day after the meeting, the privacy of which led the media in  Israel to interpret it as potentially humiliating for Netanyahu for lack of the  traditional hand-shaking photo-op, a senior US administration official told  The Jerusalem Post that the meeting was "very positive." The official  rejected reports of a contentious encounter as "silly media speculation."  
  
 Several other sources familiar with the meeting's dynamics  described it as positive and cordial, rather than angry and confrontational, and  the photo released Friday where Obama and Netanyahu are seen smiling over dinner  at the dining room in the White House's Oval Office seems to refute any reports  of an undesired or forced meeting. 
  
 Channel 10's Washington reporter said Friday evening the  release of the photo aims to correct the impression caused in Israel by the  circumstances surrounding the meeting, adding that White House officials were  talking to Israeli reporters since Tuesday in an effort to stress that the  meeting was indeed in good spirits. 
  
 Commenting on the two leaders' private discussion, US-Israel  relations expert Ra'anan Gissin told IBA News on Friday afternoon that  "Washington is different today, closing one year [into Obama's administration]  with a lot of statements but nothing really done."  Gissin said the current US administration "is an  administration putting a lot of emphasis on public diplomacy," typifying the  Monday meeting between Netanyahu and Obama as an instance of "private  diplomacy." 
  
 Regarding the "humiliation" reported in the Israeli press,  Gissin said he was "not sure who was humiliated" - the press, because they  didn't get to cover the meeting, or Netanyahu, because he was denied a  handshaking photo op with the US president. 
  
 Gissin said that the Netanyahu government must still "come to  terms" with the "different perception" of the Obama administration, and pointed  to a seeming "paradox" in the White House's displeasure with Netanyahu's outlook  on West Bank settlements, as publicly expressed by Obama, Secretary of State  Hillary Clinton and other officials, and a consensus between the two democracies  on the issue of Iran, and the latter, he said, is "done discreetly."  
  
 Gissin said "There's no doubt that when it comes to the real  threat, the place to deal with that is in discreet, private diplomacy, in closed  doors."  He emphasized that reports of tension in US-Israeli relations  are not unique to the Netanyahu-Obama terms. 
  
 "I want to make it very clear, and we can look back in history  for five decades: There have been close relations between Israeli prime  ministers and American presidents, and all these relations, whether it was  [former prime minister Yitzhak] Rabin, [former PM Ariel] Sharon, [former PM  Ehud] Olmert, always had ups and downs and had tension in them, because we're  not talking about a love affair, we're talking about relations between  countries, which see eye to eye in the basic interests, which have shared values  and a shared destiny after 9/11, but differences on how the policies should be  implemented."  Hilary Leila Krieger contributed to this report